What would Marilyn do? The charisma myth
What is charisma?
Charisma is not something you're born with. It's a skill set that you can learn and internalise and grow into if you really want to.
Olivia Fox Cabane calls charisma personal magnetism.
Marilyn Munro was the queen of personal magnetism.
With no more than a fluff of her hair and a change in her demeanor, Norma Jean Baker could turn from invisible to the passer-by to the radiant Marilyn Munro that would get mobbed by crowds.
Regardless of whether you're an introvert or an extrovert, if you learn to master your social confidence. If you get a handle on what your social identity is. You can turn your charisma on, or turn it off at the right times.