Dating not working for you right now?
Take a step back.
Hit control+alt+delete on it and have a look at all the screens you’ve got open. Close the ones that are slowing down your operating system.
You’re over thinking it.
If you’re anything like me, you’re a go-getter and you’ve probably over thought your dating strategy and have too many windows open to really be getting any traction on anything.
You’ve got a Tinder, Bumble and eHarmony account. You’re being social and saying yes to things. You’re having conversations with men. You're being playful. You’re probably even communicating your standards.
We get it. You’re an achiever.
Trying all the time is exhausting.
The fact you’re not achieving in dating is wearing you down.
Like your computer. It’s all too much and your brain has had enough of trying, so it’s freezing up. You’re falling for the same lines. You’re seeing the same type of guys. You’re getting cynical about the whole thing.
Just stop for a minute.
You are an attractive, strong, wise, brave woman.
Sit with that.
Stop worrying if other people see that in you.
It’s not about them.
Just be you.
Be proud of you. Be happy with your life choices.
What attracts people to other people is positive, comfortable energy.
When you feel good about yourself, you make other people feel good. When you are happy and having a good time, people around you have a good time. When you don’t need the approval of other people they can relax around you.
People are drawn to people that they can relax around and have a good time with.
If the way you are dating isn’t working for you, hit Control+Alt+Delete.
Shut down the drainers. Focus on you.
Don’t skip the mindset stuff.
I know it seems slow and boring. I know you just want to cut to the chase.
But I promise you, you won’t have as much fun if you don’t have a solid foundation.
You need to #ThinkDifferently to #DateDifferently.